The post was revealing how middle schoolers are using social networking sites like Facebook without making the distinction between who they are online and who they are in real life.
Her young brother is the object of cyber bullying, and one of the students in his network of “friends” asked his online community to LIKE if you HATE him (UGH!)
57 “Likes” later this poor child must face his haters this Monday morning, and will ( possibly) every morning for the rest of his life (in his wounded heart). What would you do if this was happening to your child? What would you do if it was your child who was one of the ones who “Liked” the post?
I remember being bullied and what it feels like… we’ve all been there… haven’t we?
Isn’t that how bullies become bullies in the first place?
I saw a quote the other day that resonates for me:
“The way of the miracle-worker is to see all human behavior as one two things: either love, or a call for love.”― -Marianne Williamson
So what I am struck by here is that there are 57 children who just “outed” themselves as a call for love!
they are calling out – TO US! We, the adults.
Are we failing them? How is this possible that there are so many that would think it’s ok to openly “hate” someone in a digital setting and then be willing face that other child in a school setting … with their “gang.”
Sticks and stones? No.
Words kill. They kill our hearts, our spirits, our creativity.
Emotional abuse in it’s most insidious form…..
Are we creating conversations about LOVE at home, and how are we demonstrating that love? or… are we just not talking? Are we all simply too distracted by other things that dominate our attention? email, tv, chores, shopping? I’ll get to that later?
Well… later is coming… and it’s not looking so hot.
Later is coming and all of us can see it’s impact now ( if you care to look) with the political
war campaign that’s all over our screens and in our faces everyday. Lets look at who these middle schoolers are role modeling. How many adults do you know who openly HATE and align themselves with disrespectful messages that downgrade another’s choices or opinions or feelings.
Who are you aligned with?
Oh… No – I’m not asking you if you are Republican or Democrat.
I’m asking: Are You LOVE?
or A Call For LOVE?
If our words create our reality then we must make the connection that social networking give our words power that are borderless, and can affect and impact THOUSANDS. When you hit “LIKE” you send a message that can openly align you with thoughts, ideas, love or hate with just the click of a button. Words hurt people.. and I think it’s these hurt people who, over time , act out their deep pain of rejection in our society… which is what we all hear… everyday on the news and in our communities.
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